Don't Commit Self Design Voter Fraud

"Avoiding Self-Design Voter Fraud"

It was a Wednesday afternoon, and I found myself in a familiar setting – a bowling alley, meeting with my coach, Nate. Our sessions had become a staple in my journey of self-improvement.

This particular day stood out. Unlike previous meetings where I had a clear agenda, this time I was at a loss. On paper, everything in my life - work, health, relationships - seemed on track. Yet, there was this nagging feeling of discontent, an unshakeable sense of uncertainty. So, I brought it up with Nate:

"I feel like I'm ticking all the right boxes, Nate, but somehow, I'm not quite satisfied with my progress," I confessed.

Nate, with his characteristic grin, probed, "Braydon, how do you approach planning and goal-setting?" I sensed where he was leading, but I needed to hear it.

I shared my nightly ritual of introspection, focusing on areas needing improvement. Nate's reaction was a mix of surprise and understanding. "So, you're essentially tallying up your shortcomings every night?" he asked. I was taken aback by the simplicity yet accuracy of his observation. "Exactly," I admitted.

What Nate said next has stayed with me: "Braydon, it seems you're fixated on what's going against you, ignoring your victories. No wonder you're feeling down – you're constantly spotlighting the negatives."

That was my moment of clarity.

Being someone who loves analogies, my mind drifted to the ongoing election and the rampant discussions about voter fraud. In simple terms, voter fraud involves unfairly manipulating votes. This parallel struck me profoundly.

In our personal growth, we can unknowingly commit a form of 'self-design voter fraud.' By obsessively counting our flaws or areas for improvement, we're essentially casting votes against ourselves. This skewed approach is as unfair in self-development as it is in an election. Instead, what if we started acknowledging our strengths? What if we focused on our successes and the positive aspects of our lives? The power of this shift in perspective is immense.

So, I ask you – what are you excelling at right now? How are you thriving? Recognize these aspects, and let them be the foundation upon which you build and enhance your life.